
American matinee idol Tab Hunter comes to mind while reading the multimillion peso libel suit filed by actors Piolo Pascual and Sam Milby against gossip columnist Lolit Solis for insinuating that they’re gay. In 1956, Tab was at the peak of his career. The handsome “boy-next-door” was the leading man in movies with co-stars like Lana Turner, Natalie Wood and Sophia Loren. His stature rivaled James Dean and Marlon Brando and his studio, Warner Brothers, made a lot of money on him. He went into singing and released his first major nationwide hit “Young Love.” Everyone had a crush on Tab that one Valentine’s Day, he received over 60,000 Valentine telegrams. Everything was on the up for the young star despite the fact he was gay.
Tab wasn’t out then but in his tell-all autobiography released in 2005, (Tab Hunter, Confidential) he talked about a Hollywood peopled with gay producers, directors, writers, and actors. So, there was an unwritten agreement in Tinseltown: If you had a same sex love affair, do it discreetly.

At the height of his career, Confidential, a tabloid magazine ran a story about Tab caught by the police after raiding a private gay party. Tab was worried but his producer, the movie mogul Jack Warner didn’t pay the controversy any mind nor issue retractions nor demand that Tab go on “arranged” dates. He simply told Tab “Remember this. Today’s headlines-tomorrow’s toilet paper.”
Other gay baiting items about him appeared from time to time in the tabloids but Tab continued making more movies and more money while having a discreet two year romantic fling with actor Tony Perkins. There were several more lovers after that and eventually Tab settled down with his current long time partner Allan Glaser. The eventual decline in Tab’s popularity had nothing do with his sexual orientation. It was simply age; In Tinseltown, the search for young fresh faces was a constant. Tab, by then a veteran actor, was able to move into television and later perform in dinner-theaters throughout the country.

Lolit Solis was suppose to have seen, with her own two eyes, Piolo and Sam in an amorous situation at a hotel poolside. The actors’ lawyer, Joji Alonso denied that her clients were there that day. Attorney Alonso contends that such accusations destroys the “bankability” of her clients and fans would no longer watch their movies or attend their concerts if they found out they were gay. The whopping 12 million pesos in moral damages being demanded in the libel suit was to make up for the “mental anguish, besmirched reputation and social humiliation” the actors are now undergoing for being branded gay.
Aside from the movies and the concerts, the two actors, using their grins and bods, have peddled on billboards practically every product known to mankind. If Attorney Alonso now categorically states that her clients can’t sell a can of tuna, and their movies will be boycotted, and they are now mentally distraught because they’ve been called gay, what do you think we gays feel? Suicidal?

Even before Solis and other gossip columnists took aim on the Piolo/Sam affair, there had been for years the constant talk in many circles that Piolo is gay. It may have raised a few eyebrows but no sensible person (except for gossip columnists) was going to raise havoc with an earnest young man making a go of his career. Like actor and gay supporter Paul Newman would say “There are so many qualities that make up a human being…by the time I get through with all the things that I really admire about people, what they do with their private parts is probably so low on the list that it is irrelevant.”
Failed marriages, sex, and checking who’s gay is the redundant theme in show biz gossip. If you’re young and handsome and trying to make it in show biz, you’re automatically grist for the rumor mill. A 12 million peso lawsuit on a hapless columnist with a checkered background and whose writing isn’t worth getting one’s panties in a twist, seems like overkill. It actually raises unduly more eyebrows and even more fevered speculation.
Lawyer Alonso gets the prize though for her reasons on pressing the libel suit. She says the gossip item is a crime against her client’s honor, their purity and dignity now destroyed. “Because up to this day,” she adds “we all know for a fact that again, with all due courtesy to the members of the third sex, it is not still an accepted thing in this country.”

Stating that one’s purity and dignity is ruined for being called gay offends and insults gays. Calling us in the politically incorrect term as a “Third Sex” (does that mean we sport both a vagina and a penis?) and saying our behavior is not an accepted “thing” in this country makes one wonder what country and century she inhabits. Alonso seems to be oblivious to the fact that, barring a few morality crusaders, Filipino gays, lesbians, bisexuals and transsexuals live and work in one of the more tolerant and accepting societies in Asia. Caught having same sex in India? Ten years imprisonment. Making your partner orally happy in Singapore can lead to a jail term. In Muslim Malaysia and Indonesia, you’ve virtually no rights being gay. And until recently in Hong Kong, if you happen to love another man, it was life imprisonment. If Attorney Alonso believes that we gays are not an “accepted thing” in this country, I shall tell all my gay friends and supporters to boycott her client’s movies, concerts, and products. Why spare our hard earned gay pesos to people who don’t accept us? I shall also tell all my gay Fil-Am friends the next time Piolo and Sam wants to crash the Fil-Am market. Gay power and gay dollars will teach Attorney Alonso the meaning of acceptance.
The network studio ABS-CBN, should have repeated Warner Brother’s class act manner and counseled their twink stars to weather the gossip. After all, the studio has made so much money from their gay talents, gay writers, gay producers, gay executives and gay make-up artists, you’d expect a little more gratitude. Why, if the studio was swallowed up by an earthquake tomorrow, there goes half the gay population!
And where are the ad agencies and the companies who’ve overused these two stars to hawk their products? Doesn’t anyone of them have the gay balls to tell Attorney Alonso that it is BECAUSE of their sweet-handsome-probably-gay looks that sells and sells big? Remember that billboard with Piolo baring his gorgeous sexy abs while promoting a coffee brand? Today, so many gays will drink nothing else but that!
Piolo and Sam seem to be cashing in as singers given their concerts. There’s been some incredible singers. From Johnny Mathis to Boy George to Elton John to George Michael. The latter alone sold sixty seven million albums. None of these singers lost their fans or popularity when they lived open lives or came out. As George Michael would say, “I’ve wondered what my sexuality might be, but I’ve never wondered whether it was acceptable or not. Anyway, who really cares whether I’m gay or straight?”
Like Tab Hunter who came before all of them and crooning his hit song inspite all the gossip, it will be the singing (like the song) and not the “singing” (like slang for fellatio) that will ultimately prevail in the marketplace.




